Planted in June 1998
Photo © 1996 Mary "Binky" McCarthy
This Tree is a place of contemplation, reflection, and healing
for all Birthmothers
Dedicated to all Birthmothers Words and Music © 1994, 2003 by Mary McCarthy
Many are the years that passed us by To hear a sample of the song, Click Here
This song is available on Binky's CD Squirrely Girl
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For many years I've wanted to do something to honor not only my loss, but the losses that all birthmothers suffer when we surrender our children for adoption. We've been kept silent and in the shadows for too long. We've done nothing wrong, and nothing to be ashamed of. In the Bible it is written: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son...". We who love our children so much that we gave them a better life despite our own pain deserve to be recognized and honored for making the ultimate sacrifice. Some day I'd like to have a REAL tree which we can all visit to honor ourselves and help us heal. Bless you all.... Binky.
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Birthmother's Name: Unknown but Loved
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Not all reunions turn out the way we hope and dream. Sometimes the person we are searching for does not want to be reunited with us. Sometimes the person we are searching for has passed away before we can find them to be reunited. And, sometimes we never find the person we so long to see again. For all those whose searches end in sadness, I offer you love and hope, and the acknowledgement that your search was not in vain.
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